As i said i am an inexperienced writer..with my first writing experience..so forgive me for all the errors..and the boredom u suffer from while reading this one..
from next time i will try to make things interesting and humorous..
ok so here goes my first post..
Recently i met a very old buddy of mine who was suffering from the most common disease named "Who to be?"...Should we be a person who keeps changing according to how people want us to behave like or just be a person who we are...whether people like us or not.. I bet everyone of us has this question or lets say a dilemma.
I suggested him to be a person he is most happy to be but i knew it is not even possible for us to be ourselves at times as we all want to be loved by the people around us,the people whom we love and many others. we want to be loved by all and appreciated . None of us is ready to let people point towards our negative traits.
But its not at all possible to keep everyone happy and change according to what they want as every other person expects us to be how they want us to be. Leave others..lets take our example...are we not amongst those people who wants our friends or anyone to treat us the way we want to.
Since it is not possible to be so much flexible like a FLUBBER ... it is more important to be yourself. At least then you are keeping one person totally happy and completely satisfied..and thats "YOU".
This never means that you are being selfish and just thinking bout yourself. Instead you are taking the first step to be a real human being.
The people for whom you mean something are happy in your happiness..and yeah its still true...even after living in such a selfish era...there are few people who find happiness being in "YOUR" company ...and the people who don't find..they simply don't deserve the REAL YOU.. and for that you are not at all responsible.. It's people's thinking and you can't change it.
Try it yourself...be the person what people want you to be...change and behave according to people ...experiment with yourself.
You will always find something missing out of you.
And the moment you start behaving like yourself you will find that missing thing back in you....Don't believe what i wrote...but at least experiment it and find the real you and the real happiness of your life.
Many things are missing out here...thats due to my inexperience in writing and due to incapability to express myself. so i guess i shud be forgiven keeping that in mind. ;)
I guess the topic of this post makes it more clear...
well it was my Today's Fortune too..(orkut)
2 comments:
honestly speaking with ur comments before post; i wasn't expecting such an excellent post.
but it really touched some thoughts of my life...
"being myself or making others happy to be social and have others' support at the time of need" is always a dilemma.
But at the end the final thought is always that u hav to remain uplift in ur own eyes before u can rise in others' eyes...hence one shud be oneself b4 making others happy anyway
thnks
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